I’ve been updating and adding new goodies to MyFlirtStore, including pictures, video and findom. Next up I work on processing my audio to get those out to all my adoring fans, submissives and slaves.
Trample Pics x8
Findom Game- small cock humiliation
Footsie Pics x6
IM & Social Media Contacts
Tribute $50, Tribute $25, Tribute $10
Membership in the Penis Pity Club
Trample in Sexy High Heels Pics
Girdle & Stockings 7x photos
Pay my grad school tuition
7 Photos of My Feet in Flip Flops
Fierce Sexy High Heels 45sec clip
10sec Sneeze Clip
Pay for Pedicure
Toes in the Bath video clip
Flip flops trample Pics
Chastity Slave Contract
Image via Wikipedia
As some of you may have heard, I finally just committed to a personal dominatrix domain name and bought it. I expect to have the beginnings of my femdom website available March 1st, which includes moving this blog to that domain. I’m not 100% sure how the move will effect your RSS feeds, but just in case you should bookmark my femdom and fetish twitter feed for announcements. And my dominatrix redbook ad expired! I had no idea these things had expiration dates, but I guess it makes sense that they do. I probably just forgot about that section in the TOS. I will be renewing that ad when I have the new femdom site available. I know I have several slave clients that for whatever reason don’t save my email or phone number and just refer back to my domme redbook ad, so hopefully they’re smart enough to search and find this femdom blog or my twitter in the meantime. When my new site debuts I will have some lovely new dominatrix pictures and expanded list of fetish and femdom services to tempt my submissive slaves.
I’m well aware that many of my clients are married, divorced or dating. I find that married and divorced guys tend to be more compliant and respectful, and I like that. I always sort of wonder what I would do if I got an angry call from a wife. I like to think that what I do is relatively innocent. I’m not trying to take a man away from his family. In fact a good sex worker has good boundaries and won’t do anything that would take the guy from his marriage. I could go on and on about how I think our society’s ideas about relationships are dysfunctional and how it’s a feminist issue that women aren’t interested in or have any understanding of fetishes. I think Mistress Penny Barber sums it up well in her article The Wife and the Dominatrix: Sex Workers for Couples.
I am personally open to the idea of couples coming in for a session or a wife being involved with her husband’s fetish life. I’ve had people inquire about bringing their wives or girlfriends, but I have very strict rules about how it works. If a woman is going to join her partner for a session I need to make sure that she is 100% comfortable with the situation and isn’t going to be terribly upset after the experience. I honestly don’t recommend this for most couples, unless the woman is curious and initializes the session. If a woman just wants to talk and learn more about fetishes, bdsm and these practices I would be more than happy to chat with her or refer her to some informational resources.
I am searching for a submissive who will be traveling soon and who will be passing through the new body-imaging x-ray security machines. I know this is a busy travel season, and I need this done quickly. I’m afraid that the TSA might change their policy when too many people complain during the holiday rush, so we need to arrange this scene promptly. If I am not there going through security with you then I will need to to send adequate documentation of you being manhandled. Some poor working kid is going to grab your junk and see just how small your cock is, in front of everyone else in security. I can just imagine what sort of expression he might make. And what if you’re in chastity too?! DO this for me! Buy me a ticket so I can get through security with you, or be prepared to film or photograph the experience.
Bashing the patriarchy, one scrotum at a time?
The world is uncomfortably masculine, especially when it comes to sex and spirituality. There’s a woman-shaped gap in many people’s perception of power.
At Femdom events such as Club Pedestal and Luxe, both men and women can live, albeit temporarily, in a world where the female is adored. Even in the contrived setting of a BDSM scene event, I feel it addresses the imbalances that we’ve been conditioned to ignore in our normal lives. Dommes are treated with the kind of deference and respect that men normally only reserve for one another. I feel that society would be a far fairer place if gents outside the world of fetish and fantasy I inhabit could grant their womenfolk the same level of admiration.
-Pro-Domme Ms Slide
I’ve been with my Spanish Foot Slave for something like five years. He’s done things to piss me off but he’s also been sweet and a good slave. I think I have him thoroughly addicted to my feet and my power. At our last session he put his tribute in my special money hiding spot, and I didn’t bother to get it until the next day. Imagine my surprise when I see that he shorted me $25! I sat with that for a while before I said anything to him. I know he’s good for it because he can’t afford to lose me as his Mistress. Apparently there was a “misunderstanding” and he thought he was paying for a shorter session when I thought he was paying for a full length session, and gave him a full length session. Lucky for me I took some pictures of him during the session that he’s dying to get a hold of. He doesn’t get the pictures until I get the $25. I also have a video clip that I took at a previous session that he either forgot about or didn’t realize I took. I forgot about it myself until I was going through some recent videos. That will also not be released to him until I see the rest of my money. I really hope that he pays up promptly because these are some juicy videos and pictures. It’s only $25 so I don’t know what the delay is!
I’m constantly hearing from people about pro-dommes who “do it for the money” and having conversations about this topic. It’s an interesting topic and far more complex than most people realize.
First of all, people generally do their jobs for the money. Most people aren’t able to make money from their beloved hobbies so they work the job where they can make the best money. I also hear people talk about sex workers being “addicted to money” and how they can’t go back to “normal” jobs because they can’t make the same amount of money. As if people in other high paying jobs aren’t also “addicted to money” and can’t go back to lower paying jobs because they can’t maintain their standard of living. It’s really the double standard that bothers me. I don’t hear you bitching about accountants who are just in it for the money and how you don’t pay to have your taxes done by a professional.
You get all types, especially in the adult entertainment industry. There are people that just take these jobs on the side for extra money, sometimes because they really love the work and sometimes because they just need the money. You also find people that are truly running a full time business for the same wide range of reasons, some really love the work and some just happen to have found something that they can do well and make a good living off. It’s not my place to judge why anyone does anything, and their relationship to money. As a feminist I believe that a woman has a right to make a living any way she damn well pleases, and it is sexist to hold financially independent women to a different standard. If you don’t think that your pro-domme, porn star or other adult service provider is doing their work for the “right” reason, then find yourself a different domme.
It is true that there are women working as pro-dommes who aren’t involved in the the scene or have much personal interest in BDSM. I see it happening all the time. A woman is working in a different area of the adult industry and finds that a lot of her clients ask for domination or fetishes they aren’t familiar with. I see women going to sex worker message boards saying that guys keep asking them for domination and they’ve never done this before. They start learning and practicing BDSM because they have clients that want it. They’re smart business women so they go where the money is, hone their skills and grow their business. Maybe this is their first opportunity to explore a side of themselves that they never realized existed. Maybe they discover that they love BDSM. Maybe they have a fetish for money and financial domination. Maybe they don’t. Business is business and if they aren’t successful they won’t last long in the industry. Again, it’s not my place to judge anyone’s motivation.
Where do I fit in this? All of the above. I started stripping because I needed money fast and loved dancing and performing. I went into modeling because I needed money and liked performing. I started filming and running porn sites because I was good at it, the money was good, and I loved the creative outlet. I started as a pro-domme because I love BDSM and I discovered that I could make money doing it. Now I’m doing webcam and phone domination because it’s a good business move for me. Yes, I am in it for the money. No, I have not stopped playing and indulging my fetishes in my private life. Like I’ve said before, I love BDSM so much that I’ve made the ultimate lifestyle commitment and have made it my career.
I’ve been going through my pics from recent photoshoots and wanted to share
For the record, I don’t like Craigslist. I have never had anything good come of any Craigslist experience, including selling a bicycle, buying motorcycles, finding housing, finding jobs, finding gigs, and the erotic services ads. Craigslist has only brought me an endless stream of scams, stolen goods, annoyances, and creepy guys. Actually I take that back, I found the guy that fixed my stained glass window on Craigslist. Otherwise, it’s been horrible.
Craigslist has had erotic services and adult ads almost since the beginning. People were certainly using it for that purpose before there was an erotic services section. I tried advertising there a couple of times, and looked for modeling jobs. A few years back they started requiring that you register with a phone number, for “safety,” in order to post an adult ad. Then they started charging to post adult ads in order to pacify government officials that thought there was some sort of danger in the adult section. This weekend in the US they put up “censored” in place of the adult services link. Last week there was an excellent NPR radio story on the topic. You can listen to it and read the transcript. It’s really well done, and supports the right of individuals to have private lives. I’m not entirely sure why Craigslist has been targeted because there are numerous places, websites and print media, where people post adult ads.
I know a lot of folks complain that there’s so much human trafficking and slavery in the adult industry, but realistically more trafficking and slavery happens in order industries, as this news article from earlier this week shows.
My first trip to Las Vegas was very interesting. I was there for the Desiree Alliance convention, so I was hanging out with other folks involved in the adult industry. My first day there I decided to go for a walk in the middle of the day and get my nails done. The manicure and pedicure was really mediocre, and walking that much in the heat was not exactly the best idea. I got my nails done in a sexy dark blue color, that everyone loved even though my nails started chipping right away.
I ended up getting really sick in the middle of the week and missed out on a lot of fun. I ate something bad I guess. I have never been that sick. In fact I was so ill that I was sitting in the hot tub and there was an orgy happening in front of me and I didn’t really care. Didn’t have a chance to make a trip to the range to shoot machine guns. However, for about an hour when I stopped puking I managed to get myself in a limo and go down to the New Rocks outlet store in downtown Las Vegas. That was tremendously exciting. The limo driver was really excited to have someone interesting in his car, and the guy at the New Rocks outlet was really sweet and helpful. I have been waiting to go to the New Rocks outlet for literally ten years. I bought myself some gorgeous boots, and I wear them everywhere. Maybe if you’re lucky I’ll snap some photos or even possibly trample you with them. And then as soon as I got back to the hotel I started vomiting again. Not exactly my fetish.
I also went to the footnight party and was surprised at how slow it was! The party was held at a really beautiful venue in a really strange neighborhood. I spent a good amount of time chatting with the guy that owned the place about sex clubs and night clubs in San Francisco. I met up with a good friend from LA before the party and we went together. I also met a couple of very interesting guys at the party, but it was really very slow. I was a bit disappointed that Las Vegas didn’t live up to the “sin city” name, because there was a distinct lack of sinning on my part.
Because I was so ill and so busy I didn’t get to the strip at all. I didn’t get to gamble like I wanted to. I got as far as putting $20 in the slot machine, but I didn’t get to play dice or cards. I am really disappointed that I didn’t get to the range to shoot all the guns you can’t get here in California. I also didn’t get nearly enough playtime! I had a wonderful date before the footnight party, but that was all.
I’m hoping to go back in the spring for a work and play trip. I’m starting to meet more people in interesting travel destinations, so I look forward to being able to travel more frequently.
