I’ve been updating and adding new goodies to MyFlirtStore, including pictures, video and findom. Next up I work on processing my audio to get those out to all my adoring fans, submissives and slaves.
Trample Pics x8
Findom Game- small cock humiliation
Footsie Pics x6
IM & Social Media Contacts
Tribute $50, Tribute $25, Tribute $10
Membership in the Penis Pity Club
Trample in Sexy High Heels Pics
Girdle & Stockings 7x photos
Pay my grad school tuition
7 Photos of My Feet in Flip Flops
Fierce Sexy High Heels 45sec clip
10sec Sneeze Clip
Pay for Pedicure
Toes in the Bath video clip
Flip flops trample Pics
Chastity Slave Contract
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As some of you may have heard, I finally just committed to a personal dominatrix domain name and bought it. I expect to have the beginnings of my femdom website available March 1st, which includes moving this blog to that domain. I’m not 100% sure how the move will effect your RSS feeds, but just in case you should bookmark my femdom and fetish twitter feed for announcements. And my dominatrix redbook ad expired! I had no idea these things had expiration dates, but I guess it makes sense that they do. I probably just forgot about that section in the TOS. I will be renewing that ad when I have the new femdom site available. I know I have several slave clients that for whatever reason don’t save my email or phone number and just refer back to my domme redbook ad, so hopefully they’re smart enough to search and find this femdom blog or my twitter in the meantime. When my new site debuts I will have some lovely new dominatrix pictures and expanded list of fetish and femdom services to tempt my submissive slaves.
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As many of you know I had some hard times in 2010, and I spent the whole last half of November and the entire month of December being totally burned out. I know many of you follow my twitter and have seen countless complaints about chronic pain, insomnia, problems at the day job, losing my photo studio, and ongoing problems with utilities and ants in my new warehouse space. I took several vacations, but it was only on the trip to Calistoga, gift from a generous gentleman, that I was truly able to relax. I had a spa night up there with the mud bath and mineral water jacuzzi. That was the first night in several months that I was able to relax enough to fall asleep and stay asleep for an appropriate amount of time. It was the mineral water that really did it for me, and I look forward to be able to go back a little more frequently. It wasn’t very expensive so if you are looking for a gift I can let you know who in Calistoga to call to get me a spa trip.
I don’t know if I’m feeling any more balanced in this whole work/life thing. My work as a femdom is just so personal that a lot of the times I feel like I’m not working at all. It’s also difficult having to sell yourself to people, as any self-employed, small business owner or salesperson knows. It can get really deeply personal when you’re rejected or fail to make a connection. I remember it being like this in the strip club, and trying to work through the issues at that time. I think I’m in a much better place mentally now, but it still hurts sometimes and it can get exhausting.
I have some big personal goals for 2011, and I hope for you all to be a part of them! Keep following for updates and get in contact. I would love to hear from the folks in my fan club.
Bashing the patriarchy, one scrotum at a time?
The world is uncomfortably masculine, especially when it comes to sex and spirituality. There’s a woman-shaped gap in many people’s perception of power.
At Femdom events such as Club Pedestal and Luxe, both men and women can live, albeit temporarily, in a world where the female is adored. Even in the contrived setting of a BDSM scene event, I feel it addresses the imbalances that we’ve been conditioned to ignore in our normal lives. Dommes are treated with the kind of deference and respect that men normally only reserve for one another. I feel that society would be a far fairer place if gents outside the world of fetish and fantasy I inhabit could grant their womenfolk the same level of admiration.
-Pro-Domme Ms Slide
Let me tell you, trying to do anything with any of the webcam sites has been mostly irritating and occasionally horrible. I attempted to sign up for about eight different sites. Three sites had some sort of tech issue and I couldn’t even apply to be a model. Two sites I was actually online for a number of hours on multiple days and did ZERO private shows. Two sites I was able to sign up for but not able to get the tech work to perform. One site locked me out after my first month. NO clue why. I love doing cam, and a lot of folks love to see me on cam, but this is just crazy.
Well I finally found a nice cam company with real people, that I’ve spoken with on the phone, that want me working for them. My new and exclusive cam site is http://www.mistressroxxie.cammodels.com. I’m still trying to figure out what schedule I want to work, so if you specifically want to see me at a particular time leave me a comment here and I’ll make sure to be online. I really look forward to seeing you on cam!
I don’t know if it’s because I’m hungover or tired or what, but I received a message on fetlife this morning that really pissed me off. Normally I just let things like this slide off my back, but I had to really restrain myself from doing something stupid.
A guy wrote me asking me to shit on him and be a slave. No introduction, no personal information, no polite chatter, no negotiations. It’s normal for me to receive messages from clients that are brief and vague because guys just want to get their fetish on and then go back to work or home to their families. If I were to take a personal slave I would want to get to know this person and have a relationship of some sort with them. With clients it’s nice to chat and get to know each other, but realistically I am a fantasy world so we know each other on this fantasy fulfillment level. (yes, I personally am an entire fantasy world)
I respond to the guy that my dungeon space is in Oakland and there is a $$ tribute. He responds that he doesn’t want a pro, he wants “real.” This attitude is completely unacceptable. I am “real” and in fact I am so “real” that I have decided to make it my profession. Being a professional is the ultimate lifestyle commitment. I love domination and fetish so much, and I am so confident in my experience and abilities that I am able to charge money for my services and pay taxes. I see this same attitude in other areas where there are professionals and hobbyists, such as in art, where the exchange of money suddenly invalidates the whole thing. Someone who commits to a career is a sell out, and only doing it for the money, right? Talent, experience and passion have no value at all, right? Does anyone seriously think that someone would spend all this time and energy mastering skills not because they like BDSM, but because they think it’s a lucrative career? Do I have to knock some sense into anyone? Because I will.
For those of you that are not in the San Francisco Bay area or that have a tight budget you can now see me on webcam at Mistress Fetish
I now have a profile up on footnightfriends.com and I am slowly adding more pictures and video. My profile is HERE.
I am setting up my webcam so that I can do cam shows for gentlemen that are not in San Francisco. You will need to respectfully donate in order to get a cam show. Disrespectful men will be blocked. If you don’t see me online you will need to email me and make an appointment for a show.
ICQ 574611204
YIM roxxanne_rex
MSN mistressroxxanne
Second Life is a virtual world where you can be anything you want and “live” a fantastic fantasy life. There are a lot of opportunities to indulge in kinky fantasies, and I am available for session in Second Life to help bring your wildest fantasy to life. This is a really great opportunity to session with me if you are not local or if you’re just really shy. My Second Life name is Delirium Thursday. Look me up! If you can’t find me online please send me an email so we can make an appointment. roxxie @ cyber-dyke.net
