I’ve been hearing people talk about Leather spirituality and BDSM ritual and I never really understood. I always thought it was some excuse for getting into someone’s pants, but I did encounter a few people that had an actual devotion and practice to a deity with these ecstastatic body ritual traditions. I know that Hindu traditions have a lot of this thing going on, and I’ve seen rituals for Kali and Ganesha that involved BDSM. I also know people who do a variation on the Sun Dance ritual or otherwise use piercing, flesh hooks, and suspension as part of their spiritual experience. Modern Primitives do this very well. Leather spirituality, well I’m just not clear on exactly what that means.
I have always been a spiritual person. I became a Goddess worshipper and joined a Dianic spirituality group. It really fits my feminist and female supremacy point of view. I was very excited when I learned that Goddess religion honored sexuality as sacred and didn’t want to shame me for being a slut or deny my sexuality. I’ve been working with sacred sexuality as a deeply personal and private practice in my Goddess devotion for many years. I always wondered how I might combine that practice with my sex work. When I was in Las Vegas I met a wonderful woman who runs a Goddess temple that offers ritual, spiritual services and sacred sexuality services. She helped me to understand how I can move beyond my personal practice and bring sacred sexuality to the world. I hope to visit her temple some time soon, but in the meantime I’m working on these things myself.
I was always one to keep my spirituality and religion private because I thought I was really weird and I didn’t find a lot of other people that shared my perspective and experiences. In the past few years I have found more people that I can trust and work with. I don’t work with Kali or any of the Eastern traditions so it’s not really tantra, but that’s the word people are most familiar with. I’m not going to identify myself with Leather spirituality, but my FemDomme lifestyle and spirituality come from the same source. Most of my clients aren’t particularly interested in spirituality and it’s certainly not necessary to participate in any spiritual practices in order to have a session with me, but in case anyone is interested it is an option.
If you would like to talk more about these topics, receive some instruction or have a card reading please call my new sacred sexuality hotline. 1-800-TO-FLIRT ext. 9469-882
My first trip to Las Vegas was very interesting. I was there for the Desiree Alliance convention, so I was hanging out with other folks involved in the adult industry. My first day there I decided to go for a walk in the middle of the day and get my nails done. The manicure and pedicure was really mediocre, and walking that much in the heat was not exactly the best idea. I got my nails done in a sexy dark blue color, that everyone loved even though my nails started chipping right away.
I ended up getting really sick in the middle of the week and missed out on a lot of fun. I ate something bad I guess. I have never been that sick. In fact I was so ill that I was sitting in the hot tub and there was an orgy happening in front of me and I didn’t really care. Didn’t have a chance to make a trip to the range to shoot machine guns. However, for about an hour when I stopped puking I managed to get myself in a limo and go down to the New Rocks outlet store in downtown Las Vegas. That was tremendously exciting. The limo driver was really excited to have someone interesting in his car, and the guy at the New Rocks outlet was really sweet and helpful. I have been waiting to go to the New Rocks outlet for literally ten years. I bought myself some gorgeous boots, and I wear them everywhere. Maybe if you’re lucky I’ll snap some photos or even possibly trample you with them. And then as soon as I got back to the hotel I started vomiting again. Not exactly my fetish.
I also went to the footnight party and was surprised at how slow it was! The party was held at a really beautiful venue in a really strange neighborhood. I spent a good amount of time chatting with the guy that owned the place about sex clubs and night clubs in San Francisco. I met up with a good friend from LA before the party and we went together. I also met a couple of very interesting guys at the party, but it was really very slow. I was a bit disappointed that Las Vegas didn’t live up to the “sin city” name, because there was a distinct lack of sinning on my part.
Because I was so ill and so busy I didn’t get to the strip at all. I didn’t get to gamble like I wanted to. I got as far as putting $20 in the slot machine, but I didn’t get to play dice or cards. I am really disappointed that I didn’t get to the range to shoot all the guns you can’t get here in California. I also didn’t get nearly enough playtime! I had a wonderful date before the footnight party, but that was all.
I’m hoping to go back in the spring for a work and play trip. I’m starting to meet more people in interesting travel destinations, so I look forward to being able to travel more frequently.
I am blogging from Las Vegas! This is my first trip to the city. This place is really beautiful. I love the desert and the obnoxious heat. I walked for about an hour in the middle of the day to get my nails done and find a drug store. Hate the air conditioning bubbles. The desert landscape can’t realistically support a population this size, with all the resorts and golf courses. I would love to hike out and spend some time in the desert. When I was at Burningman years ago I had the very same feelings about loving the desert landscape and questioning the environmental sustainability.
I’m getting excited about the footnight party on Thursday. Today I’m going shopping in downtown. Tomorrow I hope to go to the shooting range. I still want to squeeze in a trip to the Bellagio to see the art and botanical gardens. Follow my twitter feed to get minute-by-minute updates.
I attended the Footnight parties in San Francisco for a long time, but I haven’t been in about two years because my schedule has just been crazy. It just so happens that I’m going to be in Las Vegas at the end of the month and will be at the Las Vegas Footnight! I am so excited!! All the details are HERE so if you’re in the Las Vegas area I want you to come meet my feet.
This year I have a lot of travel scheduled so I will have the opportunity to see new clients in new cities. Please contact me if you would like to book an appointment. I haven’t decided on exact dates for most of my trips, so I can be somewhat accommodating when it comes to scheduling.
So far I have planned:
LA/SoCal: late March, possibly also May
Chicago: mid-June
Las Vegas: Last week of July
hopefully eventually/soon: NYC, Vancouver, Atlanta
I am also looking at scheduling short trips to Santa Rosa, San Jose, Santa Cruz and Monterey. If you are located in those cities please contact me for more details.
