I’ve been updating and adding new goodies to MyFlirtStore, including pictures, video and findom. Next up I work on processing my audio to get those out to all my adoring fans, submissives and slaves.
Trample Pics x8
Findom Game- small cock humiliation
Footsie Pics x6
IM & Social Media Contacts
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Membership in the Penis Pity Club
Trample in Sexy High Heels Pics
Girdle & Stockings 7x photos
Pay my grad school tuition
7 Photos of My Feet in Flip Flops
Fierce Sexy High Heels 45sec clip
10sec Sneeze Clip
Pay for Pedicure
Toes in the Bath video clip
Flip flops trample Pics
Chastity Slave Contract
I’m well aware that many of my clients are married, divorced or dating. I find that married and divorced guys tend to be more compliant and respectful, and I like that. I always sort of wonder what I would do if I got an angry call from a wife. I like to think that what I do is relatively innocent. I’m not trying to take a man away from his family. In fact a good sex worker has good boundaries and won’t do anything that would take the guy from his marriage. I could go on and on about how I think our society’s ideas about relationships are dysfunctional and how it’s a feminist issue that women aren’t interested in or have any understanding of fetishes. I think Mistress Penny Barber sums it up well in her article The Wife and the Dominatrix: Sex Workers for Couples.
I am personally open to the idea of couples coming in for a session or a wife being involved with her husband’s fetish life. I’ve had people inquire about bringing their wives or girlfriends, but I have very strict rules about how it works. If a woman is going to join her partner for a session I need to make sure that she is 100% comfortable with the situation and isn’t going to be terribly upset after the experience. I honestly don’t recommend this for most couples, unless the woman is curious and initializes the session. If a woman just wants to talk and learn more about fetishes, bdsm and these practices I would be more than happy to chat with her or refer her to some informational resources.
Let me tell you, trying to do anything with any of the webcam sites has been mostly irritating and occasionally horrible. I attempted to sign up for about eight different sites. Three sites had some sort of tech issue and I couldn’t even apply to be a model. Two sites I was actually online for a number of hours on multiple days and did ZERO private shows. Two sites I was able to sign up for but not able to get the tech work to perform. One site locked me out after my first month. NO clue why. I love doing cam, and a lot of folks love to see me on cam, but this is just crazy.
Well I finally found a nice cam company with real people, that I’ve spoken with on the phone, that want me working for them. My new and exclusive cam site is http://www.mistressroxxie.cammodels.com. I’m still trying to figure out what schedule I want to work, so if you specifically want to see me at a particular time leave me a comment here and I’ll make sure to be online. I really look forward to seeing you on cam!
I have my phone number listed on a certain local listing site. My business phone number goes through Google Voice because it offers better screening options than I get on my cell phone. It’s also very discreet for both the caller and myself even though it might seem weird. First it prompts you to say your name and then it will route you to voicemail. If you don’t leave a voicemail I don’t get a record of your name. It’s been very helpful for cutting back on the creepers that expect free phone sex, but it sort of concerns me that I’m getting so many calls where the guys hang up without leaving a name or that don’t leave any voicemail. Are there really that many creeps out there?
This year I have a lot of travel scheduled so I will have the opportunity to see new clients in new cities. Please contact me if you would like to book an appointment. I haven’t decided on exact dates for most of my trips, so I can be somewhat accommodating when it comes to scheduling.
So far I have planned:
LA/SoCal: late March, possibly also May
Chicago: mid-June
Las Vegas: Last week of July
hopefully eventually/soon: NYC, Vancouver, Atlanta
I am also looking at scheduling short trips to Santa Rosa, San Jose, Santa Cruz and Monterey. If you are located in those cities please contact me for more details.
I will be making a trip up to Santa Rosa on Saturday January 9th and will be taking new clients. I will also have one appointment for brown showers available on Sunday morning before check out.
Now I just need to decide on a hotel…
Hello my beloveds,
I have had quite a summer, dealing with health problems and being very busy working on porn sites. A few of my fans are interested in seeing me blog more frequently, so I will be keeping this blog more up to date. If you need moment by moment updates then you should subscribe to my twitter feed HERE.
This summer I got involved in a situation where I did not have dominant social status. I felt that I had to be more accommodating and submissive in order to please these people. It made me fall back into old bad habits and typical American female training. I was unhappy, uncomfortable and still not getting what I wanted out of the situation. I ended that “relationship” to say the least. It just makes me sick to be reminded of the self-depreciation that young women are taught as the default socially acceptable female behavior in this society. When I was a teen, it took me several years to realize that being submissive and reserved was the problem. I was exceptionally unhappy in my life and relationships because I was taking the submissive role by default. I had never learned any different, and I had to relearn a lot of my behavior patterns. I’m trying to enter the situation I was in over the summer again, but without compromising my true strong, willful, dominant personality.
I am also looking to try out some new slaves and submissives. I had a lot of new submissives and potential slaves, but most of them didn’t really work out. I did meet some really wonderful, creative and erotic people that I will be playing with many many more times. I have a few openings right now for potential news subs and slaves, so please get in touch. Go ahead and email your interests to me at roxxie @ cyber-dyke.net and I will let you know if we have any interests in common.
For those of you that are not in the San Francisco Bay area or that have a tight budget you can now see me on webcam at Mistress Fetish
I like making myself available and accessible so that you can get in touch with me in a way that is convenient and discreet. There are some things that you need to consider if you want to please your mistress.
1. I generally answer my phone between 3-10pm. Sometimes I’ll pick up earlier or later if I’m in the mood and not sleeping. I do return calls so if you get voicemail just leave a polite brief message with your name. Don’t leave multiple voicemail messages if I haven’t answered your first one yet. Don’t call multiple times and hang up. I have caller ID.
2. You will also need to unblock your phone number. You won’t find many pro-dommes or other adult industry workers that answer calls from blocked numbers.
3. Don’t send pictures attached to emails. Just don’t. I’m sure you are a very attractive man, but I’m really more interested in your attitude and how well you serve.
4. When you call or IM keep the conversation focused. I know there is some amount of information we need to exchange to book a session, but I’m not going to give you my life story or recount numerous other experiences or go into detail about my appearance or go through a session step-by-step. If you are serious you need to have some amount of trust. If you can’t trust me then I can’t help you. And if you’re a wanker you aren’t going to get anything out of me.
I now have a profile up on footnightfriends.com and I am slowly adding more pictures and video. My profile is HERE.
I am setting up my webcam so that I can do cam shows for gentlemen that are not in San Francisco. You will need to respectfully donate in order to get a cam show. Disrespectful men will be blocked. If you don’t see me online you will need to email me and make an appointment for a show.
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